The leaves are turning...

I haven't updated this for about a month. My apologies!

What has been going on since I last posted... I had my birthday. I started meeting with a friend of a friend who needs help with his English for 10 Euro an hour. I have had six beers since being in Germany (this is an accomplishment given that I really disliked beer before coming here).

I feel like I am fitting in. A far cry from just six weeks ago when I thought I'd never survive. I may have been a bit melodramatic :) My only hope is that I get to experience more of the city's culture and history. Frankfurt is substantially new because it was so heavily destroyed during WWII but there are hidden pockets of what it once was. I guess I am struggling with the feeling that I am "missing out" on the sites (not that Frankfurt itself is full of the sites). But that is the difference between coming on vacation here and living here. I am not here just to see the big stuff, I am here to do and see everything I can. I am here to feel what it is like to live here, and be a part of this city. I think I am doing a good job of this.

Funny things people have said to me because I am American:

"You can't be American, you're not slutty enough."
"So I have to ask... BUSH?!?!"
"I'm very surprised that you are a smart person."
"Doesn't everyone want to die in Seattle?"
"You're not going to finish that? Doesn't everyone eat a ton in America?!"
After a lengthy lecture on the faults of American politics from this German guy...
-"I'm so glad you get to live here for a year and really understand what the rest of the world is doing."
-"Yeah, so have you lived outside of Germany? ...have you been to America?"
-"Well... no..."

-"Seattle?! Like that movie... what is it?"
-"Umm... you mean Sleepless in Seattle?"
-"YEAH! Awesome!"
This is funny to me because to be honest, I have never seen this movie. It came out when I was five. But that seems to be the main thing people think about Seattle other than Microsoft/Boeing and Nirvana.

Luckily, once people talk to me they usually get a better impression. I am glad to be a pleasant surprise, but it makes me a little sad that somewhere along the line, these assumptions are what they have come across.

October has brought cold weather. At this point it is similar to winter in Seattle as far as the temperature goes, so I am not so sure I am prepared for what is to come in the next few months. I may be spending a lot more time next to my heater!

Yesterday my family left for the week. Originally I was going to go to Berlin this weekend but it turned out my German class does not have a break at the same time as everyone else, so I stayed home. I have the house to myself and very little to do until Saturday.

Until next time...

My life here is a hybrid between highly regimented, kid oriented, family life and then straight up craziness. I go from drawing puppies and singing Hannah Montana to having beers with people from every corner of the world and wandering around Frankfurt for hours. I am loving this.

Glorious

Today I felt sleepy, annoyed, and absolutely wonderful.

I felt like for the first time, the girls really were loving spending time with me. We connected, we were silly, we laughed. A few days after I got here we made a guitar and microphone and headsets for a band and we practiced some songs from Camp Rock. It seemed like one of those things that we would do for a few hours and move on. But they went as far as to tell their mom how excited they were that I was not only willing to make something with them, but use it and be silly with them.

They have really stuck with this and even have written their own songs. It has been so wonderful watching their little minds be creative and passionate! Inga, 9, wrote a song about feeling shy and alone but wanting to be bold and have some direction. I was so blown away by her taking the time to write out her feelings like that and then sharing them with me. Gesa, 7, and I made up a song together today on our way home from school. And she really ran with it and added it to our repertoire. We spent about 20 minutes tonight on the lyrics and rehearsing both songs.

Our relationship is still building but it gave me such joy to really feel the bond building between the three of us. These girls are reluctant to trust me in some ways, after having the same Au Pair for 5 years, but they are smart and funny and talented and have a great sense for other people's feelings and I am really glad to be a part of all of this!

Two weeks down, fünfzig um zu gehen

I realized how much I am loving it here. I mean I do have my doubts and there have been some frustrations, but it just dawned on me that I am living in Germany and that is amazing! I already have made quite a few friends, met a lot of people from all over the world and had some crazy times. And I am only 14 days in!

Into week two

I am closing out my second Wednesday in Germany! I have not cried since Thursday (I think) and although I know it is ok to cry, I am proud to say it! I feel pretty good about being here.

Here is a basic idea of my schedule:
7am breakfast with family
9am-12pm German class
1pm lunch at home
4pm pick girls up from school (depending on day)
play time, things around the house
6:15pm supper

Depending on what the parents need, this changes a bit. I start the day bright and early and settle down around 8pm. Usually catch up with people from home around this time, watch an episode of 30 Rock on iTunes and go to bed. So far so good. (I have been using that saying a lot lately)

They eat a fair amount less than we do. They also eat the larger meal of the day for lunch. And yogurt is a dessert. Delicious bread. In general, this is a very nice place to live. I also am taking an aerobics class on Mondays. It is somewhat difficult but it is fun and is all in German so it is a good test of my ability to follow by example.

I will update more later this week. Until next time!

Evening edition

Third full day here and I faced my first "catastrophe". Luckily, it turned out just fine.

I was supposed to pick up the younger girl, Gesa, at 4:00pm from school. So at 3:15 I walked out the door and went to the bus. The bus was late and after 30 minutes of waiting, two of them came at the same time. So I hopped on, thinking I would only be a bit late. Suddenly the bus took a detour and we are at the last stop and I am not near her school nor do I know where I am. No problem, I have a cell phone. Oh wait, I left the family's number in my school bag. Ok, I will call home and get it. Cell phone doesn't work. Find a pay phone. Wont accept credit card. No one speaks English. I am crying and having visions of being sent home tomorrow. Finally I get change and call my Grandma who gives me the correct number so I can call the family. Gesa is safe and sound at school and they come find me on a street corner. We arrive home only an hour late. I was terrified!

This morning I went to my first German class. I am the only student in my class from the US and it is taught only in German. I feel like a fish out of water, but I did OK picking up on what she was saying. I suppose this is probably the best way to learn!

Otherwise I am just trying to be patient with my adjustment. I have been feeling much more homesick than I expected. But everyone keeps telling me it will get better. Until then, I am trying to keep my mind on my job and school.

Until next time!

First full day in Germany

I got in about 1pm yesterday so I have been here just over 24 hours now. I will post some things I wrote in my journal during the flight later.

I got homesick last night and had a brief moment where I thought, "I don't want this!" But I took some deep breathes, and remembered that I can do this and that I am very lucky to be able to! Hopefully once I get into a routine I will feel better. It is only my first day after all.

Tomorrow I start my language classes and Thursday I start in with my normal routine. Gunner (the father) is going walking through the alps so I will be thrown right in to my responsibilities.

So far so good.